CHEATERS BEWARE - The Grannie Detective tells all ... how your spouse how to tell if you are cheating ...

Ever ownder why he's too tired to make love? Do you get hang up calls late in the evening? Is he too busy or preoccupied to play with the kids? Help with homework or listen to their problems?

Maybe, just maybe, chances are he's having an affiar. So how can we ladies chek him out? As a former bail bonds lady I can tell you that cheating spouses are usually full of guilt. So handle the situation very carefully. I am currently a private investigator and have been for the past 25 years. Thi sis a very sensitive and potentially dangerous situation and must be handled with all dure care.

First it is important to document all details. So that evidence may be gathered correctly. We never want to falsely accuse someone so therefore we must be very careful that there is an infidelity situation which can be documented in several ways. I would never recommend that a woman try to be her own private investigator and try to to follow a possibly cheating spouse. You would probably end up hurt and embarrassed and most certainly frustrated. No, girls we private investigators can do it for you and we know how and how important it is to you.

I have techniques that rarely falil. Again, your job is to gather evidence of infidelity, check his "story". Was he at work? Look at his credit cards statements any sexy underwear? What about flowers? Did he send red roses to someone but it was not you? Your own long distance bill can document personal calls but when it comes to cellular phone bills leave it to the private investigators.

There are very reliable private investigators many of whom are women whom I find have a more sensitive appraoch to the delicate matter. Don't hesitiate if he is cheating, you'll find out and if he's not, well, you can love him even more.

LAURA LANFIELD is the author of the new book, BAIL BONDS BABYlON (http://www.LauraLanfield.com) and has been one of the most sought-after and successful female private investigators in the country for over 25 years.